Club Love Safeguarding

Club Love Safeguarding

Club Love is an exclusive Queer run, Kink and Fetish Members Club. Please complete the application form below to join our community.

For Club Love membership you need to fill out our safeguarding application below.

We screen every member to ensure you have a thorough understanding of our event guidelines and ethos. We need to feel you are a good match for the community and will enhance the space and make others feel safe and respected. This safeguarding brings the advantage of being able to play with members who are serious about your safety and pleasure.

We provide a digital membership at an annual fee of £35.

Payment is made on completion of the application and refunded if your application is unsuccessful.

Please read our full T’s & C’s before applying.

 

Why become a Club Love Ltd member?

  • Personalised access card for playrooms.
  • Discounted first release tickets for events and socials
  • Exclusive access to our Nudes and Lewds gallery
  • Private members parties
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Party Etiquette

This is a sex positive event. We provide a platform for dance, expression and sexual exploration.  Please read the playroom guidelines below before entering any of the play spaces or cuddle area. These are consensual play spaces, all we ask is that you respect each other, play safe and have fun.

Scroll downin the box below to view our party etiquette policy.

NO PHONES! There is a strict no photos rule. We have an in house photographer who will be floating around the dance and chill areas. We will always ask for your consent before any photographs are taken. Please respect everyone’s privacy, if you are caught using your camera or taking videos you will be escorted off the premises and banned from future events.

If play spaces are your bag, consider your boundaries – Be honest with yourself and decide beforehand what you are comfortable doing. You need to think about what you are willing to participate in with a partner or a group. It is best to have these conversations beforehand. There is no guarantee you will find a playmate, keep your expectations realistic. Check in with yourself and your partners throughout the evening. If you are feeling overwhelmed speak to one of the team. The cuddle room is a chill space for aftercare – we do not allow play here.

Consent – We ask for open, clear communication about your boundaries and that you respect the boundaries of everyone around you. Consent must be verbal, ongoing, and enthusiastic and can also be withdrawn at any time. Feelings, desires, and arousal is fluid and ever changing so we ask for an acute awareness of each and every playmate’s comfort and your influence on the room. Respect the space and everyone in it. If you feel you are being coerced, please report this to the Play space Supervisor.

Whilst voyeurism is a recognised ‘non-contact’ kink and consent is required we ask that no watching and or solo masturbation takes place. We find asking members to watch their play often disrupts ‘moments’ and players find this intrusive and a general mood killer. Mind your business and be respectful.

We have event staff at the entrance of the Non-Members play space to sign you in, this is for your safety. We need to ensure you are not intoxicated and able to make conscious decisions. You will only be able to enter the playrooms if you have a play partner/s

Be safe – Please ensure you use condoms. We suggest using condoms on all sex toys and politely ask you clean up after yourselves. Each playroom has hand sanitiser, wet wipes and dry towelettes. If there is a mess left by other playmates please report this to the Playroom Supervisor. It is your responsibility to be clear and honest about your sexual health with all playmates. We ask you take regular screenings prior to these events to ensure you are not putting anyone at risk.

The group playrooms work on a traffic light system for safe words

GREEN MEANS YES

AMBER MEANS CAUTION

RED MEANS STOP

We have a strict anti harassment policy. We will not tolerate harassment of any kind. If you are being harassed or witness any form of harassment please report it to venue management, well being monitors or door staff. We ask you NEVER TOUCH SOMEONE WITHOUT CONSENT even when you are on the dance floor. No means No and does not require an explanation.

Don’t assume sexual preferences or gender identities. Try and introduce yourself with your own pronouns or politely ask for someone’s when being introduced. Respect everyone. Discrimination toward anyone’s identity, race, gender, orientation, or body type will not be tolerated.

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Risk awareness-Whilst our guidelines and guardian team aim to minimise risk and tackle issues swiftly, all accountability remains with each individual. All attendees need to be aware that despite our best efforts, risks remain.

Flag anything that doesn’t feel right with staff immediately. Reporting things shows solidarity with the community and could prevent someone else having a negative experience with a dickhead

By attending you agree to not publish or sell for publication or commercial purposes any information or images relating to attendees or the ongoings of an event without our express written permission.